Hello everybody, My name is Paul. This is my first post. I’m sure this has been discussed many times already.. I have been working as a singer/guitarist for approximately 15 years both in bands and more recently as a solo acoustic performer. I have always perceived myself as an average singer, but a far better guitarist. Lately I have come to the point where I am no longer having fun performing like I used to. I feel like the lack of confidence in my voice is holding me back from reaching the next level. I am hesitant to accept or pursue higher end gigs in fear of rejection, and end up sticking to the same set of venues that I have been playing for years. I generally perform 3 or 4 nights a week, usually 3 hour gigs. I went to a vocal coach 2 years ago and may have benefited from some breathing exercises, but I stopped going because I felt like I was not improving. My pitch has never been a problem, especially since I started playing solo and can hear myself much better. However, if I am having an off night, I tend to tighten up and I am unable to hold notes and my pitch can become erratic. This is extremely frustrating, because I am aware if I hit a bad note and it sends me spiraling into a negative mindset. Often my shows are an emotional rollercoaster. I have developed a lot of bad habits over the years and it has become overwhelming to adjust. My wife has suggested that I try a public speaking course to help ease my nerves.. I have also considered self-help strategies to promote confidence and positive thinking. I am tired of being my own worst critic and defeating myself by dwelling on the negative parts of my performances. Any suggestions to help battle this would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!!